A friend on Facebook had posted
a quote which was labelled as “Life Learned Feelings”. The
quote said “Do the right thing, even when no one is looking.
It's called integrity.” Under this, it said “Type 'yes' if
you agree.”
This frustrated me because there was no
acknowledgement about who had said it. I did some research, starting
in Google when I asked it to look up who had said that quote.
On the Goodreads quote pages I
found a quote which claimed that C S Lewis had said something very
close to it. These words were “Integrity is doing the right
thing, even when no one is watching.”
I looked up the C S Lewis website and
found a different acknowledgement. They said this was a “paraphrase
of a Charles W. Marshall quote in Shattering the Glass
Slipper”. Marshall
had published the book in 2003, and there was no final proof that he
had said that, but the C S Lewis Foundation
definitely said it wasn't C S Lewis.
I
went to another website, Essential C S Lewis, which examines quotes which were acknowledged
to C S Lewis. They'd printed this one, which was C S Lewis, but these actual words didn't appear either in the Life Learned
Feelings Facebook
page pic, or in the Goodreads quote.
“We might think that, provided you did the right thing, it did not matter how or why you did it—whether you did it willingly or unwillingly, sulkily or cheerfully, through fear of public opinion or for its own sake. But the truth is that right actions done for the wrong reason do not help to build the internal quality or character called a ‘virtue’, and it is this quality or character that really matters.”
from Mere Christianity (Book 3, Chapter 2 – The ‘Cardinal Virtues’).
This
does not contain the word “integrity”. According to the two
sites, C S Lewis Foundation
and Essential C S Lewis,
that word wasn't used by Lewis. Essential C S
Lewis actually said
that the quote printed on various websites or
Facebook pages might
have been said by Vickie Milazzo. In fact, it's on her own quote-pic on her website, and she comments in her blog about integrity. Maybe
we should believe that, even though her quote-pic doesn't mention
integrity.
Acknowledging
the person who actually said a quote is essential, but don't just
name anyone. Do your own research to find out who you should
acknowledge, and put their name on your picture.
This
might be your own “integrity”.
Thanks for helping to "carry the torch" when it comes to encouraging people to not falsely credit (or pass on quotes that are misattributed) quotes.
ReplyDeletealso attributed to Charles Marshall http://charlesmarshall.net/where-is-the-man-who-will-do-the-right-thing-no-matter-what-the-cost/
ReplyDeleteAlso claimed by Jim Stoval. https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/157974.Jim_Stovall
ReplyDeleteTony Dungy said in his 2011 book Uncommon: Finding Your Path to Significance, "Integrity is what you do when no one is watching; it's doing the right thing all the time, even when it may work to your disadvantage."
ReplyDeleteIt would be fun to go through a random sample of quotes on brainquotes to see what fraction are false attributions.
ReplyDeleteMy Dad used to say this. The first time I remember hearing it was in the 1980s.
ReplyDeleteInterestingly, the quote for C. S. Lewis is probably misattributed. The only source I have managed to find is from De Capua (1998, p. 8), attributed to J. C. Watts Jnr: "Character is doing what’s right when nobody’s looking".
ReplyDeleteDe Capua, S. (1998). J. C. Watts Junior: Character counts. Children's Press.